The Art Of Approaching Women[1]

The Art of Approaching





How to meet ANY woman, ANY time, ANY where

By Thundercat

www.thundercatseductionlair.com

The Art of Approaching
Table of Contents
Introduction........................................................................\
............................1
PART I: Theory of Approaching................................................................3
What is an Opener?........................................................................\
...............4
What is Interest?........................................................................\
....................6
Types of Openers........................................................................\
............... 10
Intruders........................................................................\
............................... 11
Timing........................................................................\
................................. 16
Tonality........................................................................\
............................... 17
Body Language........................................................................\
.................. 18
Group Approaches........................................................................\
............. 20
After the Approach........................................................................\
............ 24
PART II: Types of Openers...................................................................... 25
Advice Openers........................................................................\
.................. 26
Compliment Openers........................................................................\
......... 30
Direct Openers........................................................................\
.................... 35
Drama Opener........................................................................\
.................... 38
Insult Opener........................................................................\
...................... 44
Joke Openers........................................................................\
....................... 49
Online Openers........................................................................\
................... 52
Opinion Opener........................................................................\
.................. 56
Role-play Opener........................................................................\
............... 63
Situational Openers........................................................................\
............ 68
PART III: Learning to Approach............................................................. 73
Fear of the Approach........................................................................\
......... 74
Overcoming the Barriers........................................................................\
... 77
Boot camp........................................................................\
........................... 79
Boot camp Goals........................................................................\
................ 82
Long Term Boot camp Goals................................................................... 83
Boot camp Breakdown........................................................................\
...... 85
Afterward........................................................................\
............................ 87
Bibliography........................................................................\
....................... 88

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The Art of Approaching
Introduction
I’d like to start this off by prefacing that I am NOT the best guy there is
when it comes to picking-up women. Far from it. I struggle daily trying to
meet the woman of my dreams, and like so many other guys, fall into the
traps of giving into to her every whim or getting caught up in unnecessary
“drama.” So if you’re looking for a manual on how to “bed” women, you
might want to look for a different book, because this isn’t meant to be a
“How to Get Laid” guide, nor is it meant to teach you how to increase the
number of Dates you go on.
What this book is designed to do is to teach you how to MEET people.
Plain and simple.
You don’t have to be a master seducer or licensed Hypnotist to know how
to meet people. Because of my father’s job, I moved around a great deal
growing up. Our typical living arrangement would last roughly three years
in one place before we’d have to pack up and move to another city, state,
or even country. Because of that, I basically had to start over making
friends every time we went to a new place to live. This background taught
me many things, the biggest of which is how to meet people quickly and
effectively.
Obviously, it’s not difficult to meet people. You do it every day. Just a
brief exchange of words, and before you know it, you’ve made a new
acquaintance. But there is an art to meeting someone. The ability to start a
conversation that can lead to a deeper kind of relationship takes a bit more
work than you’re typical “Hi, how’s it going?” line.
This is especially true when it comes to women. For most men (including
myself), the prospect of walking up to a beautiful woman and talking to
her with the intention of sleeping with her can be quite daunting. I’ve
known big, tough, burly guys who wouldn’t flinch at the sight of a gun
pointed to their face, but put them in a situation where they have to meet a
beautiful girl, and they’re as worthless as tits on a log (though some would
argue that tits are never worthless, but I digress…).
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So this manual is for that type of guy. The type of guy who’d rather get a
root canal than talk to a girl. The type of guy who’d rather run a mile on a
broken leg than meet a new and interesting woman.
In this book, we’re going to discuss the following:
• The Concept of “Openers”
• The Different Types of Openers
• Specific Examples of Openers
• Stacking Openers
• Why Men Are Afraid To Talk to Women
• Body Language
• Tonality
• Places to Find Women to Meet
• How to Meet People in Groups
• What Openers Work Best for Specific Environments
• A Step by Step Way to Break You of Your Fear of Approaching

By the time you are finished reading and internalizing the material
outlined in this book, you will have NO PROBLEM meeting any woman
you want, any time you want, any where you want.
So without further ado, let’s get to what you paid for…
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PART I: Theory of Approaching
In Part I of this book, we will discuss the theories behind the Art of
Approaching. This section will lay the groundwork on the concepts that
will be discussed later on in this book, along with different tactics and
strategies that one must be aware of if they are going to learn to approach
any woman they want, anytime they want, anywhere they may be.
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What is an Opener?